Sometimes you miss someone -
but you will not call him -
because -
call him -
the other cold one
will let you know what to say -
still do not play better -
send a message, right -
afraid they do not return information -
else ~ even back to the distressed people will brief an
-
met a friend called Kumi -
ago -
you can discuss anything -
now -
the phone, and only talks unimportant things -
that does not feel good. -
then -
when you think she -
you do not call her again -
-
want to call the people who love -
but -
say what is good? -
miss someone -
want to hear his voice -
heard his voice, etc. -
perhaps -
is another matter -
imagine all -
These are often better than reality -
thought seems to be far -
sometimes happens pretty close -
can call that a, -
QQ on the other side -
and seems to be fleeting -
fact - -
not contact does not mean do not miss! -
sometimes miss it is because it does not contact ... ... -
but I do not know because they missed what to say ......... -
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Therefore, distance = separation, no contact is not = forget, no phone no = cold, did not see no = do not care ... -
it still moved by the simple three words: I think you
Some people say I know for sure excuses, I want to say just words to express emotions just -
Sunday, May 22, 2011
And good people together, you will excel
and good people together, you will excel
in real life, with you and who is indeed important,
even change your growth trajectory, determine the success or failure of your life.
and what kind of people together, there will be what kind of life.
and hardworking people together, you will not be lazy;
and positive people together, you will not be depressed;
and wise fellow, you'll extraordinary;
associating with an expert, you could reach the peak.
scientists think:
positive cues, people will have good mood and physiological state of
stimulate the inner potential, to develop people's extraordinary level,
make progress, inspiring. Away from negative people it!
Otherwise, they will unknowingly steal your dreams,
decadence makes you gradually become commonplace.
positive portrait sun, where it shines bright;
negative portrait moon, not the same as the first and fifteenth.
attitude is everything. What is the attitude,
What kind of future there : decided the fate.
What kind of personality, what kind of life there.
Some people say that life has three lucky:
school met a good teacher,
met a good teacher at work,
having married a good partner.
sometimes a sweet smile,
a warm greeting,
can make your life different, brilliant.
life is most unfortunate:
because you lack of aggressive people around,
lack of visionary,
make your life becomes mediocre Yong Ping, eclipsed.
saying goes, it does not matter who you are, it is important who you're together.
ancient
grew up in a chicken coop eagle,
will lose the ability to fly,
How can fighting sky, blue sky?
wolf in sheep grow,
also
how all-powerful, surf the earth?
You had very good ,
the impact of negative people around who you,
your lack of upward pressure,
loss of forward momentum and become tacky, so banal.
do not have such ideas?
as if you imagine an eagle soaring the sky,
then you have to fly with the eagles and the group,
and not associating with the songbirds;
ride if you imagine the earth as the wolf,
that you have and run with the wolves,
sheep and deer can not walk.
is called
This may be a subtle power and the role of monasteries.
If you want smart,
then you have to and smart people together, you will be more wise;
If you want good,
that you have and the good people together, you will excel.
read good books, to pay an expert, are the two great blessing in life.
the level of a person's identity, is by his friends around the decision.
more friends, means that the higher the value you,
help your career will be.
friend is an indispensable treasure of your life.
help solve the problem because a friend and incentives,
you will seem invincible, indomitable.
the subtleties of life is that with people, hand in hand.
life lies in a better place give as gifts of roses, hand left lingering fragrance.
life is like that. Want smart people together, you have to smart;
want good people together, you have outstanding.
good at discovering the advantages of others, and put it into their own strengths, you will be wise;
good at grasping the opportunities of life, and put it into their own opportunities, you will become a good person.
successfully treat others as passionate about their success.
people learn best, make the best of themselves.
by people of intellect, the achievements of their own, which was success.
and different people together, there will be a different life.
in real life, with you and who is indeed important,
even change your growth trajectory, determine the success or failure of your life.
and what kind of people together, there will be what kind of life.
and hardworking people together, you will not be lazy;
and positive people together, you will not be depressed;
and wise fellow, you'll extraordinary;
associating with an expert, you could reach the peak.
scientists think:
positive cues, people will have good mood and physiological state of
stimulate the inner potential, to develop people's extraordinary level,
make progress, inspiring. Away from negative people it!
Otherwise, they will unknowingly steal your dreams,
decadence makes you gradually become commonplace.
positive portrait sun, where it shines bright;
negative portrait moon, not the same as the first and fifteenth.
attitude is everything. What is the attitude,
What kind of future there : decided the fate.
What kind of personality, what kind of life there.
Some people say that life has three lucky:
school met a good teacher,
met a good teacher at work,
having married a good partner.
sometimes a sweet smile,
a warm greeting,
can make your life different, brilliant.
life is most unfortunate:
because you lack of aggressive people around,
lack of visionary,
make your life becomes mediocre Yong Ping, eclipsed.
saying goes, it does not matter who you are, it is important who you're together.
ancient
grew up in a chicken coop eagle,
will lose the ability to fly,
How can fighting sky, blue sky?
wolf in sheep grow,
also
how all-powerful, surf the earth?
You had very good ,
the impact of negative people around who you,
your lack of upward pressure,
loss of forward momentum and become tacky, so banal.
do not have such ideas?
as if you imagine an eagle soaring the sky,
then you have to fly with the eagles and the group,
and not associating with the songbirds;
ride if you imagine the earth as the wolf,
that you have and run with the wolves,
sheep and deer can not walk.
is called
This may be a subtle power and the role of monasteries.
If you want smart,
then you have to and smart people together, you will be more wise;
If you want good,
that you have and the good people together, you will excel.
read good books, to pay an expert, are the two great blessing in life.
the level of a person's identity, is by his friends around the decision.
more friends, means that the higher the value you,
help your career will be.
friend is an indispensable treasure of your life.
help solve the problem because a friend and incentives,
you will seem invincible, indomitable.
the subtleties of life is that with people, hand in hand.
life lies in a better place give as gifts of roses, hand left lingering fragrance.
life is like that. Want smart people together, you have to smart;
want good people together, you have outstanding.
good at discovering the advantages of others, and put it into their own strengths, you will be wise;
good at grasping the opportunities of life, and put it into their own opportunities, you will become a good person.
successfully treat others as passionate about their success.
people learn best, make the best of themselves.
by people of intellect, the achievements of their own, which was success.
and different people together, there will be a different life.
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Nanjing Tour
Yesterday, day trip to Nanjing , the Sun Yat-sen , Yuhuatai Spirit Valley and other places, full of admiration for the feats under the memory of the martyrs in the past , only in these sites and monument to share a strong and tragic feeling faint , We should cherish every day living ! ! ! !
10 sleep habits have changed !
1, before going to bed before going to bed angry angry angry people will make rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath, a myriad of thoughts, making it difficult to sleep.
2, overeat before bedtime meal before going to bed, to intensify the gastrointestinal digestion, stomach full of food will continue to stimulate the brain. Brain has the excitement, people will not fall asleep, as the Chinese say,
3, bedtime tea Tea contains caffeine and other substances that stimulate the central nervous system, is so exciting, if bedtime tea, especially tea, central nervous system will be more exciting, people easily fall asleep
4, strenuous exercise vigorously before going to bed, makes the brain nerve cells that control muscle activity showed a very strong excited state, this excited in a short time will not calm down, people will not soon fall asleep. So, before going to bed should try to keep the body calm, but may also wish to make some minor activities such as walking and so on.
5, the pillow is too high from a physiological point of view, the pillow at 8 to 12 cm is appropriate. Too low, likely to cause hunchback.
6, set Shuishui pillow under the head when his hands in addition to affecting blood circulation, causing numbness in upper limb pain, but also easy to make intra-abdominal pressure increases, over time there will be a So, I slept with both hands as a pillow is not appropriate.
7, hooded quilt to be masked easily cause difficulty in breathing; the same time, inhale their exhaled carbon dioxide, is extremely detrimental to health. Infants and young children even more inappropriate for this, otherwise the risk of suffocation.
8, closed the night lying mouth breathing is the best way to maintain their strength, and mouth breathing not only inhale the dust, and easily so that the trachea, lungs, and ribs were cold stimulation. Best nose breathing, nose to block the part of the dust, nasal inhalation of cold air can be heated, is healthy.
9, against the wind sleep on human sleep reduced ability to adapt to environmental changes, easy cold sick. The ancients believed that the wind is riddled with long, good deeds and several variables; good tune photographed, although improper height of summer, under the wind and the Health and lying exposed. Therefore, to avoid the outlet should be a place to sleep, the bed away from windows, doors have a certain distance is appropriate.
10, sit and sleep some people have enough to eat a ride to the sofa, turn on the TV brewed pot of tea, enough comfortable. May work too tired to fall asleep watching TV, which makes the second hidden there! Will sit sleep because heart rate, blood vessels expand, blood flow to various organs also less. Coupled with the stomach needs to digest the blood supply, thereby increasing the cerebral hypoxia, resulting in dizziness, ringing in the ears appear. Some people say that at noon on the break for a while, who bring a blanket to the unit Yeah, have to find a place to stay for a. I know is saved, but it will be the body to protest.
2, overeat before bedtime meal before going to bed, to intensify the gastrointestinal digestion, stomach full of food will continue to stimulate the brain. Brain has the excitement, people will not fall asleep, as the Chinese say,
3, bedtime tea Tea contains caffeine and other substances that stimulate the central nervous system, is so exciting, if bedtime tea, especially tea, central nervous system will be more exciting, people easily fall asleep
4, strenuous exercise vigorously before going to bed, makes the brain nerve cells that control muscle activity showed a very strong excited state, this excited in a short time will not calm down, people will not soon fall asleep. So, before going to bed should try to keep the body calm, but may also wish to make some minor activities such as walking and so on.
5, the pillow is too high from a physiological point of view, the pillow at 8 to 12 cm is appropriate. Too low, likely to cause hunchback.
6, set Shuishui pillow under the head when his hands in addition to affecting blood circulation, causing numbness in upper limb pain, but also easy to make intra-abdominal pressure increases, over time there will be a So, I slept with both hands as a pillow is not appropriate.
7, hooded quilt to be masked easily cause difficulty in breathing; the same time, inhale their exhaled carbon dioxide, is extremely detrimental to health. Infants and young children even more inappropriate for this, otherwise the risk of suffocation.
8, closed the night lying mouth breathing is the best way to maintain their strength, and mouth breathing not only inhale the dust, and easily so that the trachea, lungs, and ribs were cold stimulation. Best nose breathing, nose to block the part of the dust, nasal inhalation of cold air can be heated, is healthy.
9, against the wind sleep on human sleep reduced ability to adapt to environmental changes, easy cold sick. The ancients believed that the wind is riddled with long, good deeds and several variables; good tune photographed, although improper height of summer, under the wind and the Health and lying exposed. Therefore, to avoid the outlet should be a place to sleep, the bed away from windows, doors have a certain distance is appropriate.
10, sit and sleep some people have enough to eat a ride to the sofa, turn on the TV brewed pot of tea, enough comfortable. May work too tired to fall asleep watching TV, which makes the second hidden there! Will sit sleep because heart rate, blood vessels expand, blood flow to various organs also less. Coupled with the stomach needs to digest the blood supply, thereby increasing the cerebral hypoxia, resulting in dizziness, ringing in the ears appear. Some people say that at noon on the break for a while, who bring a blanket to the unit Yeah, have to find a place to stay for a. I know is saved, but it will be the body to protest.
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Lantern Festival
moon and stars in the sky Two million candle burning heaven on the Lantern Festival
reminder of spring around music and fascinated by the old wide- man costumes have Jiao
easy to walk off the waves Shaoguang best value public incompatible spare white hair
priceless what students need to be engraved on small things weighing
reminder of spring around music and fascinated by the old wide- man costumes have Jiao
easy to walk off the waves Shaoguang best value public incompatible spare white hair
priceless what students need to be engraved on small things weighing
Monday, May 16, 2011
Harvard University, the scene of four in the morning
gap ... ...
the Internet to see this article , I feel very touched , perhaps once again confirms the success of a person behind every one has to pay unknown And sweat.
Hall Motto: 1. Now would be a dream sleep study, you will now dream of achieving
This moment will nap, you will have a dream; But this moment study, you will interpret a dream.
2. I leave uncultivated today, was yesterday, people expect to die tomorrow
I leave uncultivated today, was precisely yesterday
perishes tomorrow which person of the body implored.
3. Was late, in fact, is the fastest time
Thought is already is late, exactly is the earliest time.
4. Do not put off till tomorrow what today
Not matter of the today will drag tomorrow.
5. The study pain is temporary, has not learned the pain is life
Time the study pain is temporary, has not learned the pain is life-long.
6. Learn not the life complete , but not to conquer, even learning what can you do ?
The study certainly is not the life complete. But, sincecontinually life part of - studies also is unable to conquer, what butalso can make?
7. Learning not because of lack of time, but the lack of effort
Studies this matter, lacks the time, but is lacks diligently.
8. The success is not all accidental
Nobody can casually succeed, it comes from the thoroughself-control and the will.
9. can not avoid the pain to enjoy it!
Please enjoy the pain which is unable to avoid.
10. The early bird gets the worm
Only has compared to the others early, diligently diligently, canfeel the successful taste.
11. Success does not belong to every person
Nobody can casually succeed
12. time is passing
HOW time flies
13. Now drips the saliva, will become tomorrow the tear
Now drips the saliva , Will become tomorrow the tear
the Internet to see this article , I feel very touched , perhaps once again confirms the success of a person behind every one has to pay unknown And sweat.
Hall Motto: 1. Now would be a dream sleep study, you will now dream of achieving
This moment will nap, you will have a dream; But this moment study, you will interpret a dream.
2. I leave uncultivated today, was yesterday, people expect to die tomorrow
I leave uncultivated today, was precisely yesterday
perishes tomorrow which person of the body implored.
3. Was late, in fact, is the fastest time
Thought is already is late, exactly is the earliest time.
4. Do not put off till tomorrow what today
Not matter of the today will drag tomorrow.
5. The study pain is temporary, has not learned the pain is life
Time the study pain is temporary, has not learned the pain is life-long.
6. Learn not the life complete , but not to conquer, even learning what can you do ?
The study certainly is not the life complete. But, sincecontinually life part of - studies also is unable to conquer, what butalso can make?
7. Learning not because of lack of time, but the lack of effort
Studies this matter, lacks the time, but is lacks diligently.
8. The success is not all accidental
Nobody can casually succeed, it comes from the thoroughself-control and the will.
9. can not avoid the pain to enjoy it!
Please enjoy the pain which is unable to avoid.
10. The early bird gets the worm
Only has compared to the others early, diligently diligently, canfeel the successful taste.
11. Success does not belong to every person
Nobody can casually succeed
12. time is passing
HOW time flies
13. Now drips the saliva, will become tomorrow the tear
Now drips the saliva , Will become tomorrow the tear
There is a sad, is unspeakable heartache
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A perfect insurance policy
. . Finally understand. old-age insurance:
generally have to pay at least 15 years, to when they retire to a pension for life, so be sure to want to take the pension of people in their 15 years before retirement to start to pay. If the retirement age pension age of 15 years to pay it until you retire, when the State will keep your personal account for 8% of the pension back to you all. That unit to pay you 21% go? State to units of 21% you pay all the money to the national pension scheme in the pool fund. State regulations, only to return when the money back to individuals withholding their money to pay the money for his units all contribute to the country. How the retirement pension is calculated when out. The algorithm is very complex pension, national base of each year to pay once: If you are 30 years old, your current base pay is 3,000 yuan, while the retirement age of 55 years if it is, then you must be in your 40 years old before starting to pay old-age insurance, while 30-year-old if you start now from the cross, handed 55-year-old is 25 years, then sure you can enjoy the pension first, and second, if you pay after 25 years to pay the 3000 block fee base has become 6000, when 55 years old you can get the first month 6000 × 20% = 1200 block of the basic pension, which is to your country, in addition to your personal account on the money in the 25 also accumulated a lot of years, the average base pay good look, (3000 +6000) ÷ 2 = 4500, then you this personal account of 25 years, there should be 4500 × 8% (you pay the personal pension ratio) × 25 years × 12 months = 108,000 dollars, in addition to other prior to 1200 a month you can get the 108000 ÷ 120 = 900 blocks, the age of 55 a month so you can get at least 1200 +900 = 2,100 yuan of pension, of course, still the base of each country to rise, this year in addition to your 900, you get every month after retirement more money than 1200, of course, that your pension So more and more old-age insurance to pay the better pay, the more you pay after you retire to enjoy the more, and the state each year after you adjust the base money will get more and more Now take 1500 years after the 1000 delivery is possible. However, no matter where you pay social security fees, etc. When you retire you can enjoy the back seat of your account local retirement benefits, so high in the base where the base pay social security but the lower back where the retirement pension to enjoy people would be a big loss. Why? If you are young in Nanjing, to pay social security for 20 years and then retired, but if your account in Heilongjiang, Heilongjiang then you must return to a pension. If you pay in Nanjing 20 years The average base is 3000, and when you retire until 1000 in Heilongjiang's contribution base, then you can only enjoy when they retire the treatment of 1000! This is a loss of! words, if you pay social security but in the rich places to retire go back to the poor place to enjoy social security, you pay a lot of life but rarely enjoy! Exchange 3000 could only enjoy 1000! This is a terrible thing, but no way is this policy of the State, so all current accounts place in the low base in Beijing or Shanghai, but the base pay social security work in places with high attention, and you either pay social security in the western, or to the accounts before retirement and moved to Beijing or Shanghai, or else you're doing one of life pen huge loss in this deal. Perhaps you will say that if a place in the low base pay, when they retire back to the base of a high place to enjoy high welfare. Wrong! You think the labor security department will let you casually enjoy it? General this case the Government would find a reason to refuse you directly to transfer! That time you miss s wisdom: can not enjoy in Heilongjiang, in the Nanjing also can not enjoy! But some places like the situation has eased some of the provisions, such as Nanjing, allowing you to 5 years before retirement place back from a low base in Nanjing, and then continue to pay 5 years in Nanjing, Nanjing, high base, and then allows you to enjoy the pension back to Nanjing. this policy are not the same everywhere estimates, there are people who intend to turn you'd better go to the local labor bureau to find out the problem, so your retirement occurs when an unexpected accident!
flat monthly health insurance you pay is 9%, your monthly pay of about 2% plus 10 dollars for serious co-ordination, co-ordination just seriously ill patient, and that 11 % in the country every month to play with your health care account for 2% of your own, according to 1369 yuan per month if your minimum base pay social security, then the 1369 × 2% = 27.38 yuan. Is the national monthly call your own money, this money can be accumulated by direct credit card to buy medicine or out-patient services, and the remaining 9% of the national operator to take it to the medical assistance funds in the. As a rule, if you start from January 2008 to pay medical insurance, then starting from the February 2008 credit card you can buy medicine, or out-patient services, starting from July 2008 the cost of your hospital can be reimbursed for. If you August 1, 2008 in the hospital, lived in Nanjing, the best three hospitals, health care during hospitalization are used within the scope of medicine, surgery + hospitalization and other expenses spent a total of 5,000, then when the reimbursement net 1000 First medical center, which is starting price, the remaining 4000 medical center may be reimbursed 4000 × 86% = 3440 million, just pay your own 4000 × 14% = 560 yuan a, plus 1,000 yuan before the Pricing starts, you spend 5000 to pay 1560 yuan for himself as long as can be, and this 1560 yuan also deducted from your health insurance card (if you usually do not use that card), so in fact you can not spend much money hospital . Health insurance for our young people much more important than the old-age insurance, hospital doctor, after all, it is too expensive, and this is the significance for social insurance. However, the provisions of Nanjing medical insurance must pay at least 25 years to enjoy life in retirement, so if you retire at age 55, then no later than the age of 30 must begin to pay health insurance.
injury insurance
used less, if you need to be reminded that when at work or the time to work out what had happened, the risk on the lingua franca of the. However, in practice, many people pay no attention to the preservation of evidence out of trouble, they can not enjoy the work injury insurance lead, which is a great pity. If you arrive when they were hit by a car, it should be up alarm, let the police to investigate the records and photographs collected evidence after the police finished processing the accident will give you a Certificate of Authenticity and the like, you can take this to requests for injury was reported. If you have trouble to let people look for witnesses and does not run anything less than the alarm, the case of no evidence that the general will not be accepted as work-related injuries. There is a problem of injury time, if you July 2008 1 sunrise the injury, you must immediately reporting units, the police issued identification evidence and the accident book and your work-related injuries after a medical history to see the doctor or hospital to the unit, called the unit holding the identification of these materials to do work-related injuries, your unit must be August 1, 2008 effective material before your injury to the testing center, if you are out of work-related injuries from the days of more than a month, and that injury may Identification is not up. If you do not give you identification of units that can hold your own center identification materials to identify the best and do not exceed one month, otherwise a lot of trouble a lot of trouble.
maternity insurance,
Nanjing from June 1, 2008 since the implementation of new policies. First, increase the proportion of claims; the second is when the cards must present a marriage certificate and Medicare card and other related documents, all of the cost of the cards from the beginning to the end of your birth a child, the hospital settled with the medical center in real time, personal commitment to growth only Insurance costs are not insured. As to how the payment of maternity benefits may still be required for units to come forward, you can consult the specific department of labor security. To see the old policy, because it is in July, before the New Deal the cards provided in June is still at the old policy implementation, some comrades may also need to know. For example, if you are a woman, a monthly salary of 1,000 yuan, January 1, 2008 begin to maternity insurance, whereby the base is 1369, and you pregnant in March 2008, the end of December 2008 gave birth to a child, 2009 January discharged after hospital you want to Sign the marriage certificate (not the reimbursement of an unmarried mother) + child certificate (2 fetuses Health claims generally can not) + size chart + checkpoints and hospital construction and operation costs of all invoices + + hospital discharge summary list of all materials submitted to these companies, they can check if you are pregnant take a 500 block, children's hospital + operation when it took 2000, in general, health insurance companies can essentially within the provisions of all your claims, claims to give you the money later, including: +2000 500 inspection fee per block of inpatient surgery +1369 / month × 4 months = 7976, 1369 yuan / month × 4 months, which is specifically for the reimbursement of medical center girls subsidies. Only girls can be reimbursed to the state girls get the reimbursement of maternity insurance must be given 4 months when the average wage, so if you have children not only do not pay claims, but also can make the wages of 4 months! If you pay the base higher than wages, such as the cross is to get 1000 1369, then you have earned it. Maternity insurance to pay at least a year to enjoy, remember to remember. There is also a problem, boys are also to pay maternity insurance, maternity insurance can enjoy? If you're a boy, your wife did not work or work units did not pay the insurance, and her children when you pay maternity insurance has more than one years, then you can be reimbursed maternity insurance, but before the case, for example, you can only be reimbursed 500 inspection fee +2000 block half of hospital surgery = 1,250 yuan, 1,369 yuan of subsidies / month × 4 months salary you will not enjoy it! This is only reimbursed when girls can enjoy the same cost oh, girls will be able to take the 7976 claims, claims can only take 1,250 men, which is probably rare in China, policy. So, before the girls the best plan to have children about one year ahead began to find a unit to pay maternity insurance, you can make it! If you marry my wife and boys, the best time to marry a baby maternity insurance have to pay for a year And the base pay is also higher than the wages of her own girls Oh! However, if it does not matter she is not insured, you can give her maternity insurance reimbursement, but you do not pay subsidies to take 4 months, and the cost of the newspaper you just could get back half.
unemployment insurance,
to pay to enjoy a full year, the general pay 1 year 2 months to get, pay 2 years get 4 months, but a lifetime to get up to 24 months. Nanjing monthly standard unemployment insurance 601 yuan, 518 yuan minimum standards for urban areas. If you January 1, 2008 began to pay insurance, in January 2009 the company laid off you are, you can allow the company to get you 2 months of unemployment insurance, if you are in the year 1369 base pay of insurance, then you can get at least 2 months more than 1,000 dollars or you January 1, 2008 began to pay insurance, in January 2009 and the company you contract expires, and you do not want to renew the contract, then you can also allow the company to leave the company before you get 2 months of unemployment insurance, but also more than 800 blocks. That contract expires or the company laid off, you can take 2 months a year in accordance with the ratio of unemployment to require companies to give you do, if the company does not give you do you can go to report it, a report of a prospective. But the contract did not expire if you resign yourself go, that even if you pay full 1 year are not entitled to unemployment insurance as long as his resignation, let alone pay 1 year, that is, 10 years to pay unemployment insurance to resign You can not get a penny.
housing fund,
fund if you pay 300 a month, then the company has to your account each month to hit 300, you buy a house that is 600 out. If you paid a 50,000 whole life, you account is 10 million, and such a good thing we must not reject ah. Fund can be used to buy a house, loan, renovation or something, if you can find their own home land to build a house, the money to build a house that can be paid from the fund in the money if you do not have, when they finally retire for the money looks like all taken out.
for a job when a perfect insurance policy how to do?
five insurance: pension, unemployment work-related injuries, medical care, maternity
one gold: Fund
payment standards: old-age (by 20%, personal 8%)
; birth (units AC)
injury (in exchange, individuals do not pay)
; health care (in 10%, 2% * individual base +3)
unemployed individual units of 1.5% 0.5%)
; Fund (the highest this year, not exceeding 12% the previous year does not exceed 10% of the individual units of each half)
1. Pension Insurance is interrupted in the middle interrupt does not matter, and finally accumulated years, but the more pay, of course, the more pension Dora. for transfer procedures: transfer of a single play in the old units, new units to continue on the line
2. While the need to pay unemployment insurance However, there is not much between us (if you graduated from school, are cadre status, personnel files can be saved), to shut it does not matter, we can not get unemployment the unemployment benefits, unless the madness, the cadre status to workers identity, according to the treatment of workers after retirement pension. unemployment insurance only in the streets of registered unemployed to apply for (workers on the streets of the files as the cadres on the identity of personnel or units)
for transfer procedures: No apply to the new unit to continue on the line.
3. health insurance is more important, requirement is interrupted more than three months to failure, three months after the doctor have his own pocket, minor illness does not matter, serious illness miserable, interrupt more than three months into the new unit on again.
each have a book on health insurance, lifetime use, regardless of whether the change of units, the unit should be a certain percentage of money every month into the book, individuals may be withdrawn . use regardless.
each have a blueprint on health care, that is, medical book, medical clinics provided more than 2,000 parts costs can be reimbursed, such as spent 2500, only 50% -70 reimbursement of 500% (hospital different reimbursement different), if the patient was reported to have more. doctor's time to tell the hospital to open list of health insurance, hospital to wear.
4. provident fund unit to give you money and keep your own money to your fund account, such as the salary of 3,000 yuan, the unit gives you 300, your deduction of 300, so you should have a monthly 600 yuan fund account can only take once a year, go to fund centers to take, you need to buy a house or repair house. consigned unit can be self-created or obtained.
for transfer procedures: first in the new units to open accounts, get account number to the old units, so the old units of the original account of the money transferred to your new account.
six-year fund center Unit will send monthly statement for each employee, show your account is now money.
In addition, every year around April next year is to adjust the pension Unemployment medical base of the time,
June of each year is adjustment of the annual fund of time.
say that now on the market following a number of non-standard situations
1. many units do not follow my wages to the insurance and provident funds, such as the average wage by Beijing, the individuals at a disadvantage . So, when looking for a job to ask.
2. Now a lot of talent all the provisions of old-age unemployment and serious illness are bundled or not, on, or all together, and you must file only to the talent on. If a person In the talent, we must take individual units of money and make money themselves, with a lot of, is said by the minimum standards have to pay more than a thousand a month, but did not have much money to personal accounts, suggested that if relatively young, Fortunately, the body, but temporarily unemployed, not their hand, and later to the unit to a bar.
3. the rich can not on the pension insurance, the poor best, and that hope can be a bit of money pension. Some people say their existence was, but the state pension or have guaranteed, regulated according to economic conditions.
4. Some of the units file is not in the unit, do not give, and it is wrong because the file and the insurance is not linked to
5. foreign accounts of the same, should give all the insurance and provident funds, and accounts does not matter, since if you go to other cities, is to turn
generally have to pay at least 15 years, to when they retire to a pension for life, so be sure to want to take the pension of people in their 15 years before retirement to start to pay. If the retirement age pension age of 15 years to pay it until you retire, when the State will keep your personal account for 8% of the pension back to you all. That unit to pay you 21% go? State to units of 21% you pay all the money to the national pension scheme in the pool fund. State regulations, only to return when the money back to individuals withholding their money to pay the money for his units all contribute to the country. How the retirement pension is calculated when out. The algorithm is very complex pension, national base of each year to pay once: If you are 30 years old, your current base pay is 3,000 yuan, while the retirement age of 55 years if it is, then you must be in your 40 years old before starting to pay old-age insurance, while 30-year-old if you start now from the cross, handed 55-year-old is 25 years, then sure you can enjoy the pension first, and second, if you pay after 25 years to pay the 3000 block fee base has become 6000, when 55 years old you can get the first month 6000 × 20% = 1200 block of the basic pension, which is to your country, in addition to your personal account on the money in the 25 also accumulated a lot of years, the average base pay good look, (3000 +6000) ÷ 2 = 4500, then you this personal account of 25 years, there should be 4500 × 8% (you pay the personal pension ratio) × 25 years × 12 months = 108,000 dollars, in addition to other prior to 1200 a month you can get the 108000 ÷ 120 = 900 blocks, the age of 55 a month so you can get at least 1200 +900 = 2,100 yuan of pension, of course, still the base of each country to rise, this year in addition to your 900, you get every month after retirement more money than 1200, of course, that your pension So more and more old-age insurance to pay the better pay, the more you pay after you retire to enjoy the more, and the state each year after you adjust the base money will get more and more Now take 1500 years after the 1000 delivery is possible. However, no matter where you pay social security fees, etc. When you retire you can enjoy the back seat of your account local retirement benefits, so high in the base where the base pay social security but the lower back where the retirement pension to enjoy people would be a big loss. Why? If you are young in Nanjing, to pay social security for 20 years and then retired, but if your account in Heilongjiang, Heilongjiang then you must return to a pension. If you pay in Nanjing 20 years The average base is 3000, and when you retire until 1000 in Heilongjiang's contribution base, then you can only enjoy when they retire the treatment of 1000! This is a loss of! words, if you pay social security but in the rich places to retire go back to the poor place to enjoy social security, you pay a lot of life but rarely enjoy! Exchange 3000 could only enjoy 1000! This is a terrible thing, but no way is this policy of the State, so all current accounts place in the low base in Beijing or Shanghai, but the base pay social security work in places with high attention, and you either pay social security in the western, or to the accounts before retirement and moved to Beijing or Shanghai, or else you're doing one of life pen huge loss in this deal. Perhaps you will say that if a place in the low base pay, when they retire back to the base of a high place to enjoy high welfare. Wrong! You think the labor security department will let you casually enjoy it? General this case the Government would find a reason to refuse you directly to transfer! That time you miss s wisdom: can not enjoy in Heilongjiang, in the Nanjing also can not enjoy! But some places like the situation has eased some of the provisions, such as Nanjing, allowing you to 5 years before retirement place back from a low base in Nanjing, and then continue to pay 5 years in Nanjing, Nanjing, high base, and then allows you to enjoy the pension back to Nanjing. this policy are not the same everywhere estimates, there are people who intend to turn you'd better go to the local labor bureau to find out the problem, so your retirement occurs when an unexpected accident!
flat monthly health insurance you pay is 9%, your monthly pay of about 2% plus 10 dollars for serious co-ordination, co-ordination just seriously ill patient, and that 11 % in the country every month to play with your health care account for 2% of your own, according to 1369 yuan per month if your minimum base pay social security, then the 1369 × 2% = 27.38 yuan. Is the national monthly call your own money, this money can be accumulated by direct credit card to buy medicine or out-patient services, and the remaining 9% of the national operator to take it to the medical assistance funds in the. As a rule, if you start from January 2008 to pay medical insurance, then starting from the February 2008 credit card you can buy medicine, or out-patient services, starting from July 2008 the cost of your hospital can be reimbursed for. If you August 1, 2008 in the hospital, lived in Nanjing, the best three hospitals, health care during hospitalization are used within the scope of medicine, surgery + hospitalization and other expenses spent a total of 5,000, then when the reimbursement net 1000 First medical center, which is starting price, the remaining 4000 medical center may be reimbursed 4000 × 86% = 3440 million, just pay your own 4000 × 14% = 560 yuan a, plus 1,000 yuan before the Pricing starts, you spend 5000 to pay 1560 yuan for himself as long as can be, and this 1560 yuan also deducted from your health insurance card (if you usually do not use that card), so in fact you can not spend much money hospital . Health insurance for our young people much more important than the old-age insurance, hospital doctor, after all, it is too expensive, and this is the significance for social insurance. However, the provisions of Nanjing medical insurance must pay at least 25 years to enjoy life in retirement, so if you retire at age 55, then no later than the age of 30 must begin to pay health insurance.
injury insurance
used less, if you need to be reminded that when at work or the time to work out what had happened, the risk on the lingua franca of the. However, in practice, many people pay no attention to the preservation of evidence out of trouble, they can not enjoy the work injury insurance lead, which is a great pity. If you arrive when they were hit by a car, it should be up alarm, let the police to investigate the records and photographs collected evidence after the police finished processing the accident will give you a Certificate of Authenticity and the like, you can take this to requests for injury was reported. If you have trouble to let people look for witnesses and does not run anything less than the alarm, the case of no evidence that the general will not be accepted as work-related injuries. There is a problem of injury time, if you July 2008 1 sunrise the injury, you must immediately reporting units, the police issued identification evidence and the accident book and your work-related injuries after a medical history to see the doctor or hospital to the unit, called the unit holding the identification of these materials to do work-related injuries, your unit must be August 1, 2008 effective material before your injury to the testing center, if you are out of work-related injuries from the days of more than a month, and that injury may Identification is not up. If you do not give you identification of units that can hold your own center identification materials to identify the best and do not exceed one month, otherwise a lot of trouble a lot of trouble.
maternity insurance,
Nanjing from June 1, 2008 since the implementation of new policies. First, increase the proportion of claims; the second is when the cards must present a marriage certificate and Medicare card and other related documents, all of the cost of the cards from the beginning to the end of your birth a child, the hospital settled with the medical center in real time, personal commitment to growth only Insurance costs are not insured. As to how the payment of maternity benefits may still be required for units to come forward, you can consult the specific department of labor security. To see the old policy, because it is in July, before the New Deal the cards provided in June is still at the old policy implementation, some comrades may also need to know. For example, if you are a woman, a monthly salary of 1,000 yuan, January 1, 2008 begin to maternity insurance, whereby the base is 1369, and you pregnant in March 2008, the end of December 2008 gave birth to a child, 2009 January discharged after hospital you want to Sign the marriage certificate (not the reimbursement of an unmarried mother) + child certificate (2 fetuses Health claims generally can not) + size chart + checkpoints and hospital construction and operation costs of all invoices + + hospital discharge summary list of all materials submitted to these companies, they can check if you are pregnant take a 500 block, children's hospital + operation when it took 2000, in general, health insurance companies can essentially within the provisions of all your claims, claims to give you the money later, including: +2000 500 inspection fee per block of inpatient surgery +1369 / month × 4 months = 7976, 1369 yuan / month × 4 months, which is specifically for the reimbursement of medical center girls subsidies. Only girls can be reimbursed to the state girls get the reimbursement of maternity insurance must be given 4 months when the average wage, so if you have children not only do not pay claims, but also can make the wages of 4 months! If you pay the base higher than wages, such as the cross is to get 1000 1369, then you have earned it. Maternity insurance to pay at least a year to enjoy, remember to remember. There is also a problem, boys are also to pay maternity insurance, maternity insurance can enjoy? If you're a boy, your wife did not work or work units did not pay the insurance, and her children when you pay maternity insurance has more than one years, then you can be reimbursed maternity insurance, but before the case, for example, you can only be reimbursed 500 inspection fee +2000 block half of hospital surgery = 1,250 yuan, 1,369 yuan of subsidies / month × 4 months salary you will not enjoy it! This is only reimbursed when girls can enjoy the same cost oh, girls will be able to take the 7976 claims, claims can only take 1,250 men, which is probably rare in China, policy. So, before the girls the best plan to have children about one year ahead began to find a unit to pay maternity insurance, you can make it! If you marry my wife and boys, the best time to marry a baby maternity insurance have to pay for a year And the base pay is also higher than the wages of her own girls Oh! However, if it does not matter she is not insured, you can give her maternity insurance reimbursement, but you do not pay subsidies to take 4 months, and the cost of the newspaper you just could get back half.
unemployment insurance,
to pay to enjoy a full year, the general pay 1 year 2 months to get, pay 2 years get 4 months, but a lifetime to get up to 24 months. Nanjing monthly standard unemployment insurance 601 yuan, 518 yuan minimum standards for urban areas. If you January 1, 2008 began to pay insurance, in January 2009 the company laid off you are, you can allow the company to get you 2 months of unemployment insurance, if you are in the year 1369 base pay of insurance, then you can get at least 2 months more than 1,000 dollars or you January 1, 2008 began to pay insurance, in January 2009 and the company you contract expires, and you do not want to renew the contract, then you can also allow the company to leave the company before you get 2 months of unemployment insurance, but also more than 800 blocks. That contract expires or the company laid off, you can take 2 months a year in accordance with the ratio of unemployment to require companies to give you do, if the company does not give you do you can go to report it, a report of a prospective. But the contract did not expire if you resign yourself go, that even if you pay full 1 year are not entitled to unemployment insurance as long as his resignation, let alone pay 1 year, that is, 10 years to pay unemployment insurance to resign You can not get a penny.
housing fund,
fund if you pay 300 a month, then the company has to your account each month to hit 300, you buy a house that is 600 out. If you paid a 50,000 whole life, you account is 10 million, and such a good thing we must not reject ah. Fund can be used to buy a house, loan, renovation or something, if you can find their own home land to build a house, the money to build a house that can be paid from the fund in the money if you do not have, when they finally retire for the money looks like all taken out.
for a job when a perfect insurance policy how to do?
five insurance: pension, unemployment work-related injuries, medical care, maternity
one gold: Fund
payment standards: old-age (by 20%, personal 8%)
; birth (units AC)
injury (in exchange, individuals do not pay)
; health care (in 10%, 2% * individual base +3)
unemployed individual units of 1.5% 0.5%)
; Fund (the highest this year, not exceeding 12% the previous year does not exceed 10% of the individual units of each half)
1. Pension Insurance is interrupted in the middle interrupt does not matter, and finally accumulated years, but the more pay, of course, the more pension Dora. for transfer procedures: transfer of a single play in the old units, new units to continue on the line
2. While the need to pay unemployment insurance However, there is not much between us (if you graduated from school, are cadre status, personnel files can be saved), to shut it does not matter, we can not get unemployment the unemployment benefits, unless the madness, the cadre status to workers identity, according to the treatment of workers after retirement pension. unemployment insurance only in the streets of registered unemployed to apply for (workers on the streets of the files as the cadres on the identity of personnel or units)
for transfer procedures: No apply to the new unit to continue on the line.
3. health insurance is more important, requirement is interrupted more than three months to failure, three months after the doctor have his own pocket, minor illness does not matter, serious illness miserable, interrupt more than three months into the new unit on again.
each have a book on health insurance, lifetime use, regardless of whether the change of units, the unit should be a certain percentage of money every month into the book, individuals may be withdrawn . use regardless.
each have a blueprint on health care, that is, medical book, medical clinics provided more than 2,000 parts costs can be reimbursed, such as spent 2500, only 50% -70 reimbursement of 500% (hospital different reimbursement different), if the patient was reported to have more. doctor's time to tell the hospital to open list of health insurance, hospital to wear.
4. provident fund unit to give you money and keep your own money to your fund account, such as the salary of 3,000 yuan, the unit gives you 300, your deduction of 300, so you should have a monthly 600 yuan fund account can only take once a year, go to fund centers to take, you need to buy a house or repair house. consigned unit can be self-created or obtained.
for transfer procedures: first in the new units to open accounts, get account number to the old units, so the old units of the original account of the money transferred to your new account.
six-year fund center Unit will send monthly statement for each employee, show your account is now money.
In addition, every year around April next year is to adjust the pension Unemployment medical base of the time,
June of each year is adjustment of the annual fund of time.
say that now on the market following a number of non-standard situations
1. many units do not follow my wages to the insurance and provident funds, such as the average wage by Beijing, the individuals at a disadvantage . So, when looking for a job to ask.
2. Now a lot of talent all the provisions of old-age unemployment and serious illness are bundled or not, on, or all together, and you must file only to the talent on. If a person In the talent, we must take individual units of money and make money themselves, with a lot of, is said by the minimum standards have to pay more than a thousand a month, but did not have much money to personal accounts, suggested that if relatively young, Fortunately, the body, but temporarily unemployed, not their hand, and later to the unit to a bar.
3. the rich can not on the pension insurance, the poor best, and that hope can be a bit of money pension. Some people say their existence was, but the state pension or have guaranteed, regulated according to economic conditions.
4. Some of the units file is not in the unit, do not give, and it is wrong because the file and the insurance is not linked to
5. foreign accounts of the same, should give all the insurance and provident funds, and accounts does not matter, since if you go to other cities, is to turn
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Ten habits of everything 【 】
Some people say that is because the habits of successful people successful. New Year, let us create a new habit. As to share their life in the workplace should be ten gradually develop the habit of, though we may look impossible, but we can try: [text: jin 12783747 welcome to reprint]
【1】 to do something fun when used with a happy state of mind, know how to create a happy atmosphere, attention to concern about the joy of his family or team. Have a happy habit of people, there will be a higher emotional intelligence: to manage their emotions and perceptions of other people's emotions.
【2】 win the habit of our lives and the parties must always interactive cooperation, the parties wish to succeed, and win-win is the best strategy. We cooperate with others when, in the protection and fight for their own interests, but also fair and reasonable consideration should be the interests of partners to reach and win-win situation by taking into account the manner proposed and eventually reached Hello, everybody is really good.
【3】 principles of customary principles and rules set can be used to break, but the principle is used to observe and defend the first, because no rules no standards. Should be a person of principle, the operation of a variety of issues, should first establish the principle, then in accordance with principles, but also to adhere to the principles of a problem. Only if we adhere to the principle, you can establish credibility and improve operational efficiency.
【4】 tough habit is not smooth the road to success, in addition to actively planning and forecasting difficulties, should have a good attitude through the valley to meet the challenges and never give up, to maintain navigation and move on until successful.
【5】 habit of thinking in work or study for a long time, something happens is always the experience of staying at a low level response. Thinking brain is missing is the lack of agility to deal with things. Move the brain to think about things, analyzes the birth will bring innovation.
【6】 communication habits are said to have 80 companies from the communication source of the problem is not smooth or wrong, to avoid Many times we ask one more question, once more confirmed that the problem of hazards to be properly resolved.
【7】 good habits to adapt management style according to the team, considering a variety of projects and select the appropriate situational leadership style and team approach, which will maximize team performance.
【8】 a habit of gratitude to those who know Thanksgiving is a trusted and worthy to follow. Thanksgiving is more wisdom to forgive and gratitude gave us harm, slander, and ignore us, and they let us know how it is strong and grateful.
【9】 life is summed up the habit of accumulation, especially in the field of knowledge is particularly important. Although older, but to maintain a positive and hardworking attitude and habits of learning, for example, the end of each project or something, should the situation the project and share lessons learned.
【10】 upright habit of a person's character if there are problems, do not expect also to what extent things. Remember, Germany for the first man of high moral character are more likely, and worthy of trust and entrusted with the task, so to maintain integrity is based on the idea as a gentleman.
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【1】 to do something fun when used with a happy state of mind, know how to create a happy atmosphere, attention to concern about the joy of his family or team. Have a happy habit of people, there will be a higher emotional intelligence: to manage their emotions and perceptions of other people's emotions.
【2】 win the habit of our lives and the parties must always interactive cooperation, the parties wish to succeed, and win-win is the best strategy. We cooperate with others when, in the protection and fight for their own interests, but also fair and reasonable consideration should be the interests of partners to reach and win-win situation by taking into account the manner proposed and eventually reached Hello, everybody is really good.
【3】 principles of customary principles and rules set can be used to break, but the principle is used to observe and defend the first, because no rules no standards. Should be a person of principle, the operation of a variety of issues, should first establish the principle, then in accordance with principles, but also to adhere to the principles of a problem. Only if we adhere to the principle, you can establish credibility and improve operational efficiency.
【4】 tough habit is not smooth the road to success, in addition to actively planning and forecasting difficulties, should have a good attitude through the valley to meet the challenges and never give up, to maintain navigation and move on until successful.
【5】 habit of thinking in work or study for a long time, something happens is always the experience of staying at a low level response. Thinking brain is missing is the lack of agility to deal with things. Move the brain to think about things, analyzes the birth will bring innovation.
【6】 communication habits are said to have 80 companies from the communication source of the problem is not smooth or wrong, to avoid Many times we ask one more question, once more confirmed that the problem of hazards to be properly resolved.
【7】 good habits to adapt management style according to the team, considering a variety of projects and select the appropriate situational leadership style and team approach, which will maximize team performance.
【8】 a habit of gratitude to those who know Thanksgiving is a trusted and worthy to follow. Thanksgiving is more wisdom to forgive and gratitude gave us harm, slander, and ignore us, and they let us know how it is strong and grateful.
【9】 life is summed up the habit of accumulation, especially in the field of knowledge is particularly important. Although older, but to maintain a positive and hardworking attitude and habits of learning, for example, the end of each project or something, should the situation the project and share lessons learned.
【10】 upright habit of a person's character if there are problems, do not expect also to what extent things. Remember, Germany for the first man of high moral character are more likely, and worthy of trust and entrusted with the task, so to maintain integrity is based on the idea as a gentleman.
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Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Reprinted 80 years later, why do not we get married!
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Reprinted: 80 years later, why do not we get married! ! !
80 early after us, presumably now Laotaibuxiao, and put children at this age in the liberation of Montreal run. Look around there are many peers marry and have children, you can also have held back most, um, a mention of marriage to twitch!
Why are we Sipilailian of pulling the tail of youth do not get married? Let me think about it.
I think, first of all, attitude problems.
in the past, marriage is simply not a thing, one to find a similar age to do, then everyone was poor, simply agile, and no one cares about love and more love less. But now that human evolution was more seriously their own children, and what character, family background, appearance, work, education, future, or even as a hobby is not without pondering, repeated studies, in-depth study, careful comparison, toss and turn ... ... seeing the complexity of the problem put simply, they magnify the problem! More confused the more refined results, it can not be a marriage to end!
married Well, the two join as a partner to live, had more than a simple matter, hard to create the space shuttle than we confused yet wordy. The recovery of their reasons, I think the purpose of marriage is not simply, and always wanted to get some through marriage, the other added value. Such as houses, cars, but also the future of the good old days. When you want a piece of paper to get a lifetime thing, is quite a bit.
mentality there is a problem, that is, the fear of marriage.
our generation can be regarded as trophy to grow up, I did not experience the war did not survive the hungry, their parents tend to baby, the old feeling is still small, how to get married then? Marriage means children, she was still a child, how he came out the next generation? Now young women are narcissistic enough, to take over the mundane is really so reluctant to let go of youth, boys the same age is less mature, when used to let him Dangdie son suddenly, all of a sudden really adapt.
well-meaning parents, for our lifetime of happiness that can be heard If this marriage is really the
Also, modern apathy and decay of love let us hesitate to panic. The most immediate consequence is that many people no longer believe in love, do not believe in commitment, do not even believe in themselves. I could not change even their own future security are not allowed, how to ask others? Divorce, extramarital affair around the illegitimate son of betrayal filled with eyeballs, my marriage can be spared? Besieged there in the end this is good? May enter into a second-hand one, is too cautious.
Second, is a human problem, which is the key.
want to marry the people do not want to marry, we do not want to marry want to marry. People are Fanjian animals, did not get something though not necessarily good, but it still is an obsession, to curry favor with flattering the sovereign people into the heart of that not necessarily grateful. Be silent about their devotees around is turning a blind eye, holding you, loving you, to really put myself as the emperor, and other conditions, no matter how well felt wronged their own, not always so willing to She got in trouble look on you.
there are some people who neither want to marry people who do not want to marry, the entire service area is not a love, be love, forgotten corner, hey ... ... if you Kangde Zhu single pressure , then, or Ningquewulan it, abuse it if such a person to Shoubu Zhu also received a.
marriage no matter how simple, is also a matter of two people, I looked around a person, whom Results ah? Do not tell me you put blind date, which I started 5 years ago, contacts, professional way to go. Intimate that the white prick, with tinted glasses to buy cabbage, do not have one green Baji, purple autumn does not slip.
Finally, a question of money. The problem, said China also big, small is also small.
poor couple misery, these words must be justified. Money is certainly a lot of young lovers and rank the biggest obstacle. Lang affectionate concubine interested, staff in place, like the Young Pioneers mentality ready, and they love devotion, and anxious to build a nest having children immediately, and can nest where to find this it? That the white house, say that white is the money. No money no room, even if the rents have to ask for money, right? Say that marriage is the tomb of love, no house you have no access to even the grave! Victors of it! The so-called sense of belonging to a woman's sense of security, when in love is a reliable shoulder warm embrace, can a married woman to change the flag flew from the more Zhang romantic realism, how was how warm and generous embrace of the now not as good as steel fraction of cement to reality.
ago in rural areas, there can be a happy occasion the inter-tile-roofed house; later generation that we parents, married as long as there is benefit housing; Now, University of universal prosperity of the people, and we hand, even the can not wait. 20 several of the college, there is a fixed unit quite good steady income, no matter how good the unit can not get a free house ah. How the house did not get married? If the parents a little family property, the house you are buying a car, and that good fortune, how many students go to school all the money borrowed from the East to fight the West, graduation would like to buy a house? The first 5 years 6 years is also a debt then. Of course, certainly has started from scratch and struggle taught, but when he scratch, you will not be taught how to determine what he will? If you have the eyes that you wait, the way men Dezhi see more novels after his wife abandoned finds no dramas.
addition to the house, the place of marriage for money and more to go, what deposit, bride price, rings, wedding ... everything ... a lot. Said ring it, do not know who invented, anyway, have a wedding! From courtship, engagement, marriage, which had a step missing ring? Can not be a general ring, was a symbol of love is forever the
offer, when you iron the copper even with a plastic straw, a small romantic feelings for a woman that came up also do not care, the total can not be married to such a fool when someone, right? You have the heart to let the bride walked with aluminum ring with you in a rental house? This point can be a large stone fart I do not know why so valuable to the absolute self-reliance and make a small youth, So, ah, a great longing for marriage of cement and stone, let a few ruin the future.
course, there are opened to see this set of primary care, four years married to mouth is not to mention buy a diamond ring, not wedding photographs, no feast, the children of a new You save trouble, and may have a few women also want to save trouble ah? Anyway, most women are not enough, be sure to shoot wedding photos, but also good film, hard to beat! Allure is not tilting the country looks I do not disband!
Every family has its cupboard, get married have to vary this. After all, life event, although after 80 experience is still shallow, but we also know how to write Liangzi responsibility. Wish we Duo Zhenzhong, cherish life together in the future do not regret it!
80 after the mainstream of today's society people or people about to become the mainstream of society, the intention of writing this article is to arouse public concern, and 80 times after going to the outside world to our ideas and concept is changing. Too many things we face, who is also the increasingly heavy burden, if this generation disharmony, society can harmony?
world is ours, and also his sons, but ultimately that bunch of grandchildren.
Reprinted: 80 years later, why do not we get married! ! !
80 early after us, presumably now Laotaibuxiao, and put children at this age in the liberation of Montreal run. Look around there are many peers marry and have children, you can also have held back most, um, a mention of marriage to twitch!
Why are we Sipilailian of pulling the tail of youth do not get married? Let me think about it.
I think, first of all, attitude problems.
in the past, marriage is simply not a thing, one to find a similar age to do, then everyone was poor, simply agile, and no one cares about love and more love less. But now that human evolution was more seriously their own children, and what character, family background, appearance, work, education, future, or even as a hobby is not without pondering, repeated studies, in-depth study, careful comparison, toss and turn ... ... seeing the complexity of the problem put simply, they magnify the problem! More confused the more refined results, it can not be a marriage to end!
married Well, the two join as a partner to live, had more than a simple matter, hard to create the space shuttle than we confused yet wordy. The recovery of their reasons, I think the purpose of marriage is not simply, and always wanted to get some through marriage, the other added value. Such as houses, cars, but also the future of the good old days. When you want a piece of paper to get a lifetime thing, is quite a bit.
mentality there is a problem, that is, the fear of marriage.
our generation can be regarded as trophy to grow up, I did not experience the war did not survive the hungry, their parents tend to baby, the old feeling is still small, how to get married then? Marriage means children, she was still a child, how he came out the next generation? Now young women are narcissistic enough, to take over the mundane is really so reluctant to let go of youth, boys the same age is less mature, when used to let him Dangdie son suddenly, all of a sudden really adapt.
well-meaning parents, for our lifetime of happiness that can be heard If this marriage is really the
Also, modern apathy and decay of love let us hesitate to panic. The most immediate consequence is that many people no longer believe in love, do not believe in commitment, do not even believe in themselves. I could not change even their own future security are not allowed, how to ask others? Divorce, extramarital affair around the illegitimate son of betrayal filled with eyeballs, my marriage can be spared? Besieged there in the end this is good? May enter into a second-hand one, is too cautious.
Second, is a human problem, which is the key.
want to marry the people do not want to marry, we do not want to marry want to marry. People are Fanjian animals, did not get something though not necessarily good, but it still is an obsession, to curry favor with flattering the sovereign people into the heart of that not necessarily grateful. Be silent about their devotees around is turning a blind eye, holding you, loving you, to really put myself as the emperor, and other conditions, no matter how well felt wronged their own, not always so willing to She got in trouble look on you.
there are some people who neither want to marry people who do not want to marry, the entire service area is not a love, be love, forgotten corner, hey ... ... if you Kangde Zhu single pressure , then, or Ningquewulan it, abuse it if such a person to Shoubu Zhu also received a.
marriage no matter how simple, is also a matter of two people, I looked around a person, whom Results ah? Do not tell me you put blind date, which I started 5 years ago, contacts, professional way to go. Intimate that the white prick, with tinted glasses to buy cabbage, do not have one green Baji, purple autumn does not slip.
Finally, a question of money. The problem, said China also big, small is also small.
poor couple misery, these words must be justified. Money is certainly a lot of young lovers and rank the biggest obstacle. Lang affectionate concubine interested, staff in place, like the Young Pioneers mentality ready, and they love devotion, and anxious to build a nest having children immediately, and can nest where to find this it? That the white house, say that white is the money. No money no room, even if the rents have to ask for money, right? Say that marriage is the tomb of love, no house you have no access to even the grave! Victors of it! The so-called sense of belonging to a woman's sense of security, when in love is a reliable shoulder warm embrace, can a married woman to change the flag flew from the more Zhang romantic realism, how was how warm and generous embrace of the now not as good as steel fraction of cement to reality.
ago in rural areas, there can be a happy occasion the inter-tile-roofed house; later generation that we parents, married as long as there is benefit housing; Now, University of universal prosperity of the people, and we hand, even the can not wait. 20 several of the college, there is a fixed unit quite good steady income, no matter how good the unit can not get a free house ah. How the house did not get married? If the parents a little family property, the house you are buying a car, and that good fortune, how many students go to school all the money borrowed from the East to fight the West, graduation would like to buy a house? The first 5 years 6 years is also a debt then. Of course, certainly has started from scratch and struggle taught, but when he scratch, you will not be taught how to determine what he will? If you have the eyes that you wait, the way men Dezhi see more novels after his wife abandoned finds no dramas.
addition to the house, the place of marriage for money and more to go, what deposit, bride price, rings, wedding ... everything ... a lot. Said ring it, do not know who invented, anyway, have a wedding! From courtship, engagement, marriage, which had a step missing ring? Can not be a general ring, was a symbol of love is forever the
offer, when you iron the copper even with a plastic straw, a small romantic feelings for a woman that came up also do not care, the total can not be married to such a fool when someone, right? You have the heart to let the bride walked with aluminum ring with you in a rental house? This point can be a large stone fart I do not know why so valuable to the absolute self-reliance and make a small youth, So, ah, a great longing for marriage of cement and stone, let a few ruin the future.
course, there are opened to see this set of primary care, four years married to mouth is not to mention buy a diamond ring, not wedding photographs, no feast, the children of a new You save trouble, and may have a few women also want to save trouble ah? Anyway, most women are not enough, be sure to shoot wedding photos, but also good film, hard to beat! Allure is not tilting the country looks I do not disband!
Every family has its cupboard, get married have to vary this. After all, life event, although after 80 experience is still shallow, but we also know how to write Liangzi responsibility. Wish we Duo Zhenzhong, cherish life together in the future do not regret it!
80 after the mainstream of today's society people or people about to become the mainstream of society, the intention of writing this article is to arouse public concern, and 80 times after going to the outside world to our ideas and concept is changing. Too many things we face, who is also the increasingly heavy burden, if this generation disharmony, society can harmony?
world is ours, and also his sons, but ultimately that bunch of grandchildren.
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
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